I am sorry to hear this. However, payday lenders will not give you much and it will be for a short period of time.
I know that you want to do the right thing but I do not think that you are in a position to be able to do so.
VERY BAD IDEA to go into debt to attend a funeral. the corpse doesn't care if you're there or not. Visit the grave later. payday lenders are all equally bad. trying to choose one is like picking a horse t**d over a cow t**d.
DEFAULT on your bills is BETTER than the 'best' payday loan.
If you can't pay CASH to attend the funeral, you CAN'T attend the funeral. I know this sounds unfeeling, but it is reality.
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