Here's the cold hard truth,No matter how much money you make, the world is designed to take it away. Between the bank collecting fees, the lender charging you for a mortgage, the credit card companies charging high fees,insurance companies giving you unnecessary policies and complicated financial products like annuities taking advantage of your confusion, you have to be on the defensive and have the knowledge to protect yourself from losing money. This doesn't mean you have to play the victim. Defending your money against the onslaught of costs and demands starts by waking up to the truth about your financial situation. Alot of people say life is expensive but It starts with the most basic of tasks: tracking your spending and creating a budget. This is the path to obtaining long term wealth
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claim bankruptcy. If your really deep in debt it's the best option. Put your most valued items under your parents name or gf. Get a new start
Sell some things you own that you could technically live without.
Work more and try to sell things in demand.
Beg and borrow
Stop asking start doing.